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Happiness breeds success
Harvey Mackay

October, 2012

What makes me happy? It's a question we all should ask ourselves periodically, since all of our actions should, in some way, be directed toward achieving happiness. Initially, thoughts of riches beyond imagination may fill your mind. Or your thoughts may center on the car/house/job of your dreams. But if you are honest, you will probably find it to be a more difficult question than you would expect.

 

Abraham Lincoln is purported to have once said, "Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." Abe knew what he was talking about, and in the final analysis, I think you will find that the only "thing" that can make you happy is you.

 

Happiness is just a state of mind. So are anger, sorrow, disappointment and loneliness. The mind is the most powerful tool in the universe, but you are the one who controls it. Like your car, if you see your mind heading in the wrong direction, you can steer it the other way. You need to recognize when you have negative feelings and try to steer your mind in a different direction. You don't want to be dwelling on the situation that brought you to that emotional state.  

 

Of course, it is easier to steer your mental car toward happiness if you have directions. That brings us back to our question, "What makes me happy?" By answering this question, you will be drawing the map. Try an easier question if you are stuck: "What has made me happy in the past?" My guess is that it was not material things.              

My definition of happiness is not the fleeting, live-in-the-moment feeling that accompanies a birthday present. Rather, I think of happiness as a way of life. Truly happy people may have difficult times, but they know how to bounce back because they know better times are possible - and probable. They are content to have more positive thoughts than negative ones. They also understand that their happiness depends largely on how much happiness they share with the people around them.  

 

Happiness is a powerful, addictive narcotic. Step into the bliss often enough and you'll carry it with you and seek situations that perpetuate it. Build a powerful reserve of positive feelings that will carry you through the tough situations that life throws at you.

 

Studies have shown that too much stress can inhibit your immune system, causing many of the health problems that plague our society. Heart disease, rheumatoid arthritis, ulcers, migraine headaches, mental illness and even cancer are just a few of the health issues that have been linked to excessive stress. So in addition to improving the quality of your life, reducing your level of stress and increasing your happiness may also help to save your life.  

 

Researchers at the Institute for Aging Research at Albert Einstein College of Medicine questioned 243 people age 100 or older. They found that centenarians tend to share certain personality traits (in addition to other factors, like genetics). In general, these long-lived people are:

 

  • Outgoing,
  • Positive-minded about other people,
  • Full of laughter,
  • Open with their emotions,
  • Conscientious and disciplined,
  • Unlikely to obsess about anxieties or guilt.

 

The scientists point out that these characteristics don't necessarily represent a cause and effect relation­ship. They did notice, however, that in many cases the personality traits they observed weren't necessarily lifelong tendencies, but behaviors their subjects learned as they grew older. Focusing on the good and not worrying about the negatives may have a positive impact on overall life expectancy.

 

So now that you know what finding your bliss could do for your quality of life, why wait? Organize your life so you have time to do the things you love.

 

I am not advocating that you abandon all responsibility. Life's pressures are going to prevent you from playing golf seven days a week and even sunsets start to look alike after a while. You may not be able to just quit your job to become a professional singer. But the more attuned you are to what truly makes you happy, the more your life will align itself with the things you value and treasure.

 

As Albert Schweitzer said, "Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful."

                       

Mackay's Moral: Only you can draw the map of the road to your happiness.



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